Best Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Best Would You Rather Questions for Couples

By the time you finish asking the questions in this list, you may be in a more solid relationship, or you may be walking away from someone you thought was your soulmate. Yikes! We hope you don’t actually take this page so seriously! We are hoping to provide entertainment, not legitimate relationship advice.

So, just have fun with this. The goal here is to help you get discussions going with your SO about what you want or hope for in life. Some of the questions are deep; some are silly. Most, however, will help you to gain insights about your SO that will allow you to feel you know them better. As you will realize, our goals here at are all about helping people to make connections with other people. That’s what this is all about.

Best Would you Rather Questions for Couples

It’s time to sit down with your SO and really get to know each other. You may laugh, you may cry, you may feel a bit angry or utterly joyful! Whatever the outcome, I hope you are ready for the relationship adventure awaiting you and your SO as you delve into these questions. Enjoy!

  1. Would you rather enjoy a nice date and stay at home or go out?
  2. Would you rather be a night owl or an early bird?
  3. Would you rather spend the day camping and hiking outside or inside watching movies and eating yummy food?
  4. Would you rather spend $10,000 traveling and making memories or spend it on tangible things like computers or cell phones?
  5. Would you rather never bite your cheek again or never get a paper cut again?
  6. Would you rather have a personal chef for five years or a babysitter for the time your children are young?
  7. Would you rather go on a cruise for a week or go to Disney World for a week?
  8. Would you rather volunteer at the food pantry or your local animal shelter?
  9.  Would you rather stay in a toxic relationship for the rest of your life or be in no relationships for the rest of your life?
  10. Would you rather always wear comfortable clothes that aren’t fashionable or fashionable clothes that aren’t very comfortable?
  11. Would you rather spend $5,000 on an expensive item (like a TV) or on travel?
  12. Would you rather work inside doing office work or outside doing physical labor–assuming pay is the same?
  13. Would you rather do morally questionable work that pays well or have a job that helps other people but pays very little?
  14. Would you rather lose all your money or all the photos you’ve taken throughout your life?
  15. Would you rather die in 15 years with zero regrets or die in 30 years with several regrets?
  16. Would you rather jump 300 years into the past or 300 years into the future?
  17. Would you rather live in a world without sushi or a world without tacos?
  18. Would you rather never use social media again or never watch another movie again?
  19. Would you rather have the power to read minds or to teleport?
  20. Would you rather run into your soulmate and have the full Nicholas Sparks romance novel-esque love story or find a briefcase with $5 million inside and experience a Dan Brown mystery thriller novel-esque heist story?
  21. Would you rather know when you’re going to die or how you’re going to die?
  22. Would you rather become an infamous historical figurehead known by billions or be forgotten from history?
  23. Would you rather be a stellar mathematician or a talented artist?
  24. Would you rather visit any theme park free for the rest of your life or eat free at any fast-food restaurant for the rest of your life?
  25. Would you rather lose the ability to speak or lose the ability to read?
  26. Would you rather be content without achieving much throughout your life or continuously be achieving great things but never be satisfied?
  27. Would you rather be attractive but stupid or intelligent but ugly?
  28. Would you rather be a reverse mermaid or a reverse centaur?
  29. Would you rather never be able to laugh at other people’s jokes, but everyone thinks yours are hilarious or be able to laugh at other people’s jokes, but no one thinks yours are funny?
  30. Would you rather wake up as a new person each year and have complete control of them for that entire year or spend a day per week inside someone’s body but have no control over them for that whole day?
  31. Would you rather never get a paper cut again or never get something stuck in your eye ever again?
  32. Would you rather have a crappy job in a fantastic city or a fantastic job in a crappy city?
  33. Would you rather have a personal chef or a housekeeper?
  34. Would you rather go for a year without TV or books?
  35. Would you rather live in a Manhattan penthouse or a jazzed-out cozy cabin deep in the woods?
  36. Would you rather be constantly tired no matter how much you sleep or be constantly hungry no matter how much you eat?
  37. Would you rather be reincarnated as a worm or just cease to exist after you die?
  38. Would you rather be poor with lots of great friends or rich with no friends?
  39. Would you rather eat all of your food piping hot or freezing cold?
  40. Would you rather live without the internet or without AC/heating?
  41. Would you rather end world hunger or put a stop to war?
  42. Would you rather meet your ancestors or your great-great-grandchildren?
  43. Would you rather only be able to walk on your hands or skip everywhere you go?
  44. Would you rather have a horsetail or a unicorn horn?
  45. Would you rather have your grandmother’ s/grandfather’s first name or their hairstyle?
  46. Would you rather always wear socks full of squelchy spaghetti noodles or bathe in a tub of mayonnaise for an hour every day?
  47. Would you rather live with a nest of harmless, friendly spiders in the corner of your room or continuously have to be avoiding three uber angry wasps nesting somewhere on your front porch?
  48. Would you rather be stuck on an airplane between two arguing passengers or stuck right beside a screaming pair of twin babies?
  49. Would you rather spend the rest of your life on a sailboat traveling the seas or in a nice RV road-tripping across the continent?
  50. Would you rather have an arranged marriage or spend the rest of your life single?
  51. Would you rather be a movie actor or a TV show actor?
  52. Would you rather move to a new city every week or never be able to leave the city you were born in?
  53. Would you rather be rich and famous for your singing or your dancing?
  54. Would you rather watch a documentary or a comedy movie?
  55. Would you rather not be able to see or not be able to taste?
  56. Would you rather be an average person in today’s world or be royalty 300 years ago?
  57. Would you rather be marooned on an island with your celebrity crush or fly all around the world with the person you’re dating/married to right now?
  58. Would you rather be completely alone for five years or constantly be surrounded by people and never have a moment alone for five years?
  59. Would you rather wear clothes from a thrift store that have holes in them or uncomfortable shoes for a whole day?
  60. Would you rather have a job working indoors or have a job working outdoors?
  61. Would you rather save a stranger’s life and live homeless for a year or not save that stranger’s life but keep your home?
  62. Would you rather be incapable of answering questions or be incapable of asking them?
  63. Would you rather be CEO of a big company with hard-to-work-with employees and get paid a lot or manager of a small business with excellent employees and not get paid a lot?
  64. Would you rather speak every language fluently or play every instrument perfectly?
  65. Would you rather be a kid for the span of your whole life or an adult for the span of your whole life?
  66. Would you rather not shower for a week or not get a haircut for a year?
  67. Would you rather play your partner’s favorite sport with them or cheer as they play it with other people?
  68. Would you rather date someone who’s an extrovert or introvert?
  69. Would you rather your partner had a tiny house or an old rundown house?
  70. Would you rather meet your partner’s best friends or their siblings first?
  71. Would you rather be someone who is always late or always early?
  72. Would you rather have lots of hugs or lots of kisses on the cheek?
  73. Would you rather always look nice but never smell nice or always smell nice but never really look nice (i.e. sweatpants and socks with sandals)?
  74. Would you rather read a book together that takes a long time or watch a two-hour movie together?
  75. Would you rather facetime all day or have a text conversation all night?
  76. Would you rather date a spender or a saver?
  77. Would you rather go mountain climbing or skydiving?
  78. Would you rather date someone who smiles with dimples or has an infectious laugh?
  79. Would you rather date someone who’s hilariously ambitious or someone who’s ambitiously hilarious?
  80. Would you rather be with someone who burps loud or farts loud?
  81. Would you rather eat pickled eggs with your partner or fried grasshoppers with your partner?
  82. Would you rather be single and make a lot of money or be in love and poor?
  83. Would you rather be the one to break up with people or be the one whom people break up with?
  84. Would you rather meet your partner’s family first or you meet their family first?
  85. Would you rather your partner forget your birthday or them remember your birthday but not have gotten a present from them?
  86. Would you rather have a partner who is a social butterfly or one who is antisocial?
  87. Would you rather rob a bank or steal a car with your partner?
  88. Would you rather your partner be liked more by your friends or more by your family?
  89. Would you rather your partner make light of the situation or make faces when you get in arguments?
  90. Would you rather be with someone who plays with their food or burps during the meal?
  91. Would you rather be with someone who is very rude or someone who is quiet and does not speak their mind?
  92. Would you rather your partner’s car make a noise when they start it or not have a car at all?
  93. Would you rather cuddle with your partner when they have a cold and are sneezing or cuddle when they have smelly farts?
  94. Would you rather have a partner who is too hyper when dancing or one who doesn’t know how to dance at all?
  95. Would you rather be with someone who laughs really loud or one that doesn’t laugh at anything?
  96. Would you rather be with someone who has no fashion sense or someone who makes their own clothes?
  97. Would you rather have a partner who sings while making dinner or who sings while in the shower
  98. Would you rather be with someone who kicks during the night or who snores during the night?
  99. Would you rather dance together when it is snowing or on a beach?
  100. Would you rather be taller than your partner or shorter than your partner?